我们每个人的漫漫的人生路就像是一望无际的大海，而每天围绕在我们身边的人就像是同一条船上的蚂蚱，当一个大浪袭来，每个人都自顾不暇，在这关键时刻只能靠自己。

Our long journey in life is like an endless sea, and the people around us every day are like grasshoppers on the same boat. When a big wave hits, everyone is overwhelmed and can only rely on themselves at this critical moment.

在现实生活中也是一样，别人帮你是情分，不帮你是义务。没有谁有义务去永远为另一个人无条件的付出，哪怕是自己的亲兄弟，时间长了都会有嫌隙，更何况外人呢？

In real life, it's the same. Others helping you is a matter of love, not helping you is an obligation. No one has the obligation to unconditionally sacrifice for another person forever, even their own brothers. Over time, there will be resentment, let alone outsiders?

人生其实就是一个升级打怪的过程，这个难处自己踩过去了，下次遇到类似的情况就不会再觉得难了，后面的路也会越走越顺，越走越远。

Life is actually a process of upgrading and defeating monsters. Once you overcome this difficulty, you won't find it difficult again the next time you encounter a similar situation. The road ahead will become smoother and farther.