不舍得卸下身上的包袱时，跟自己说一声：算了

When unwilling to take off the burden on oneself, he said to himself, "Forget it."

布袋和尚曾经说过一句：左边一个布袋，右边一个布袋，放下布袋，何其自在。

The cloth bag monk once said, "There is a cloth bag on the left and a cloth bag on the right. It is so comfortable to put down the cloth bag.".

当你以淡泊之心，处事时，你会发现，一切都能放下。

When you approach things with a indifferent heart, you will find that everything can be let go.

在古时候，有一个书生进京赶考，遭人暗算导致落榜，此时，青梅竹马的恋人也离他而去。

In ancient times, there was a scholar who went to Beijing to take an exam but was ambushed and failed. At this time, his childhood sweetheart also left him.

书生从此一蹶不振，每日郁郁寡欢，消极度日，始终活在阴影和痛苦中。

From then on, the scholar fell into a state of despair, feeling dejected and depressed every day, enduring extreme hardships and living in shadows and pain.

一日，他碰见一位高僧，便请教如何解脱，高僧不曾多言，只让他跟着自己三天即可。

One day, he met a senior monk and asked for advice on how to relieve himself. The senior monk did not say much and only allowed him to follow him for three days.

三天内，高僧只让书生饮水，不允许他吃饭，每天让他喂马、砍柴，晚上就让他睡马厩。

For three days, the monk only allowed the scholar to drink water and did not allow him to eat. He fed horses and cut firewood every day, and at night he slept in the stable.

三天过后，书生崩溃大哭，后悔为何要自寻苦吃。高僧说道：从前的你何曾不是如此。书生大悟。

Three days later, the scholar collapsed and burst into tears, regretting why he had to seek his own hardships. The high monk said, "How could you not have been like this before?". Scholar's enlightenment.

《论语》里说：成事不说，遂事不谏，既往不咎。

In the Analects of Confucius, it is said: If a thing is accomplished, do not remonstrate, and let bygones be bygones.

很多时候，放过别人，就是放过自己，放过自己，就是成全自己。

Many times, letting go of others means letting go of oneself, letting go of oneself means fulfilling oneself.

越是喜欢较真的人，日子越过得操心劳累，越是喜欢纠缠的人，反而越容易将自己拉入深渊。

The more you like someone who is more serious, the more worry and tiring the days go by. The more you like to entangle with someone, the easier it is to pull yourself into the abyss.

不如及时地放下，卸下包袱，将往事抛开，将烦恼清零，才能洒脱上阵，轻松生活。

It's better to let go in a timely manner, let go of burdens, let go of the past, and clear away worries in order to be free and easy to live.